Is This The Secret To Like Attracting Like?

The following appeared on a Facebook news feed.  What do you think about what this person has to say?

Attraction

If you really think about it, there is always someone who loves you and wants to be with you.  Men talk about not being able to find the right woman, when in reality they are presented with the right woman all the time.  The problem is your value system has you wanting something else that you think is better.  Women do the same thing.  It’s not that you can’t find a man, it’s that you can’t find a man that fits a picture of what you think you want.

The truth is, men are hitting you up all the time, but again, your value system has you wanting something else.  But here’s the thing, many of the people who are showing attraction for you are your right match.  These are the people who are reflecting where you’re currently at. Make sense?  If you don’t like who’s stepping to you it means that you’re not who you think you are.  You don’t match your vision of yourself.  It’s still a dream, a desire to be something or someone that you’re not.  So no need to complain about no women or men being available.  Instead, complain about the fact you haven’t done the work to put yourself in the place to attract the type of person you really desire.  Complain about the fact that you haven’t gone into the gym yet.  Complain about the fact that you don’t know how to love unselfishly.  Complain about the fact that you still have a bad attitude.  Complain about the fact that your self esteem is all jacked up. Complain about the fact that you prefer to live in a victim mentality and deny your innate power.  Complain about the fact that all you do is complain about what you don’t have instead of getting off of your ass and fixing your life.  Complain about the fact that all you do is gossip and talk about other people all day long and some how find yourself alone even amongst ‘friends’.

Only complimentary energies attract each other so these folks you’re attracting match you in some way, so instead of dissing them, take a step back and figure out what the matching element is.  If you’re not attracting anyone to you, well, that’s a match too.

Real talk!

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2 Responses

  1. eknor says:

    Slam dunk! great post!

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